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Loving enough to say no: The necessity of confrontation

April 14, 2016 by Sam Hodges

Are your leaders reluctant to confront?

If your leaders won’t confront those who need to be challenged or corrected, you won’t have a healthy church. Conflict will simmer. People will never reach their potential in Christ. And you’ll end up dealing with more problems than necessary. Dr. Robert Jones shares a few concepts you can pass along to your leaders who may be hesitant to confront people who need to be challenged.

Are your leaders properly motivated to confront?

While some may be hesitant, others in your church may be eager to confront. And if they don’t have the proper motivation, that can be a recipe for disaster. Dr. Stephen Viars shares some helpful principles to pass on to leaders about the proper motivation for confrontation.

Are your leaders prepared to confront?

Even with the right motivation, sometimes confrontation can go sideways, turning into an argument or leading to misunderstanding. One approach? If a leader thinks confrontation might get out of hand, Dr. Viars has this suggestion:

Confrontation isn’t easy. But training your leaders to do it well will strengthen your church. Stay tuned for more articles on how to equip your leaders to handle conflict more effectively.

Sam Hodges
Sam Hodges
Managing Editor

Sam leads the CareLeader team. As a seminary-trained, ordained pastor, Sam knows firsthand a pastor’s desire to provide effective care to hurting people in the church and community. He directs and oversees CareLeader’s content, making sure the articles and videos equip pastors with information and ideas that are strategic, do-able, and consistent with Christ-centered, biblical care principles.

Sam also leads Church Initiative’s editorial team and has written and produced a number of Church Initiative’s video-based small group curriculums. They include GriefShare second and third editions (2006, 2014), DivorceCare third edition (2012), and Single & Parenting (2011). Sam is also coauthor of Grieving with Hope: Finding Comfort as You Journey Through Loss.

Sam graduated from Howard University with a bachelor of arts in communications. After that he received a master of divinity degree from Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary with an emphasis in Christian education. Sam has also served on staff as a discipleship pastor at Infinity Church in Laurel, MD.

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